Some people think that single life is not fun and dull. No matter they live a single life by choice or not, loneliness becomes a serious threat that could undermine happiness. In the end, they become depressed and look for a runaway from loneliness. Drugs, free sex, even suicide are commonly done.
Is single life really that bad? I firmly say NO. After all, happiness is affected by our own minds. When you regard it as a disgrace, then when you run into this situation, the negativity will fill your life. Below are 5 ways: how to enjoy your single life:
You dated someone in your class and you had an intimate relationship with him/her but the relationship didn't last long, because one day he/she seemed close to someone else. It made you hated that person because you were afraid he/she would be taken from you. Not only that, days that were usually filled with laughter and joy, now turned into hell.. Quarrelled everytime.
The desire of having and fear of losing something excessively - or in short, possessiveness - is an attitude that often arise in a relationship. Possessiveness is closely related to insecurity, unconfidence, loneliness, dependency, and fear of losing. This attitude can either be passive actions such as feeling unhappy and upset, or in form of aggresive actions such as controlling and assaulting their partners. Do you:
Do you remember how difficult to communicate with someone who was far away from you 20 years ago? At those times, phone rates were so expensive and letters took a long time to be delivered so it must be difficult to contact our families and friends. However, thanks to rapid technological developments, now we can communicate with other people as easy as turning the palm of the hand eventhough we separated thousands of miles and by different timezones.